We may think of ourselves as progressive and sex positive, but many of us have a very limited idea of who should actually be having sex. What comes to mind when you picture old people being intimate? When was the last time you thought about porn for mature women?
Older people are often left out of the sex positive conversation. In fact, they’re not just left out, they’re completely invisible. There is a pervasive attitude that older people just don’t have sex and when we’re asked to imagine it, we often cringe at the idea. Senior sex is thought of as something disgusting, ridiculous, or gross.
As people get older, they become more comfortable in their bodies and more adventurous when it comes to trying new things in the bedroom.
Unfortunately, these ideas are hard to fight against because we are surrounded by a society that tells us young is beautiful. Just look at movies, tv series, magazines, Leonardo Dicaprio’s girlfriends… When did you last see an older person in a sexualized position? We are constantly fed the message that to be young is to be desirable. To be old, is to be celibate.
But seniors are sexual beings just like the rest of us. Just as an 81-year-old afterglow user recently told us,
“At 81, I’m putting a lot of effort into my own sexual journey and much of that revolves around watching porn. Every Sunday is a day for me and my pleasure. A day of worshiping my own body, if you will.
“My lover passed away a few years ago, so now I like to watch afterglow films and imagine that it’s the two of us acting out the scenes in front of me.”
Regardless of whether someone has wrinkles or gray hair, they can still be sexy when naked.
Match.com found that women report having the most pleasurable sex at age 66 and men at 64.
There is no reason that your sexuality can not be enjoyed throughout your life and well into your senior years. Older people don’t have to give up the delights of orgasms and pleasure. And enjoying your sexuality means enjoying porn featuring people who look like you and who you can relate to.
Thankfully there are a number of porn performers and directors making mature women porn.
💡 Tip: If you’re interested in learning more about sex over the age of 60, check out the Queen of mature sex, Joan Price’s book ‘Naked at Our Age. It combines Price’s personal stories with advice from sex therapists, sexuality educators, and health care providers.
There is no expiry date on pleasure
We have a lot to learn from the older folks when it comes to sex and sexuality, which makes it even more ridiculous that they are shunned out of the sex positive porn conversation. A lot of research has found sex gets better with age.
As people get older, they reportedly become more comfortable in their bodies and are more adventurous when it comes to trying new things in the bedroom.
Almost 75% of people between the ages of 57-64, and 25% of those aged 75-85, are still getting down ‘n’ dirty roughly three times per month, which is only slightly less than those aged 30-49.
And a recent survey by Match.com found that women report having the most pleasurable sex at age 66 and men at 64.
Anyone else suddenly feel a hell of a lot better about aging now? 💁♀️
What is porn for mature women?
Porn for mature women is exactly what it says on the tin. It’s sexually explicit adult cinema that is made with older women in mind. It usually stars mature adult performers, but it can be made according to any theme or kink.
Porn featuring senior performers has been around for as long as time (hence the popularity of MILF & GILF porn), but it’s often portrayed in an objectifying way or as a taboo. This type of porn does not cater for most mature audiences, but instead someone who wants the taboo of seeing an older body having sex, usually with someone younger.
Mature porn performers
There are a lot of mature porn performers out there but here are just five of our favorites.
1. Nina Hartley
Nina Hartley. Source: Age & Beauty on Lust Cinema
“Sex isn’t something men do to you. It isn’t something men get out of you. Sex is something you dive into with gusto and like it every bit as much as he does.” — Nina Hartley
One of the most popular mature performers, industry legend Nina Hartley has been working in pornography since 1982 and she’s starred in more than 1000 adult films! She is immensely popular and has become one of the industry’s most respected spokeswomen on sex-positive, feminist pornography. She describes herself as bisexual, a swinger, and an exhibitionist. Follow Nina on Twitter.
2. Darla Crane
Darla Crane. Source: Twitter @Darla_Crane
She started with softcore bondage in the 90s, and then moved on to producing and directing her own fetish-themed productions. She’s been acting in the mainstream adult industry since 2000. She’s described herself as a “bleeding heart liberal”, so if you think politics and sex are the perfect bedfellows, follow Darla on Twitter.
3. Marcus London
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Proving that 50 is the new 30, Marcus London is the heart throb for everyone looking for an older, experienced man. He’s been in the industry for over 15 years and has created a successful line of sex ed instructional videos focusing on the art of female ejaculation. Follow Marcus on Twitter.
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4. Magdalene St. Michaels
Magdalene St. Michaels. Source: Twitter @MagdaleneXXX
Magdalene joined the industry aged 49, and is now a popular mature performer known best for her lesbian scenes. She excelled in acting, singing and dancing from a young age, and featured in some mainstream Hollywood movies before entering the adult industry. For this reason she shines the brightest when she’s acting in feature length adult films. Follow Magdalene on Twitter.
5. Cherie DeVille
Cherie DeVille. Source: Twitter @CherieDeVille
In her mid 40s, she’s one of the youngest mature porn performers on this list but we didn’t want to leave her out because she is a very popular, self-identified “MILF”. Cherie first began performing in adult movies in her mid 30s after a career in physical therapy. In addition to being great on screen and having an insane body, she is also an amazing dancer. Follow Cherie on Twitter.
Best porn for mature women
Check out six of our favorite porn mature women movies.
1. jessica drake’s Guide To Wicked Sex: Senior Sex
Joan Price (👑) teams up with jessica drake to bring seniors practical tips on how to increase their sexual pleasure. Plus, it wouldn’t be on this list if it didn’t include some hot, explicit demonstrations by a cast of sexy seniors.
2. The Widow on Lust Cinema
Starring Magdalene St. Michaels, The Widow follows Magdalene as a recently-widowed college professor who fears that there isn’t much left in life to look forward to. But when a handsome young student develops a crush on her, she is forced to confront the realities of dating a younger man.
3. Mature Pleasure Stories: Cherie and Lucas on afterglow
Cherie DeVille is at her finest in this New Sensations movie. Before leaving for her vacation, Cherie meets her housesitter Lucas Frost to show him around. You can guess where this is going…
4. Soul Sex with John & Annie by Erika Lust
John and Annie met on a dating site called Spiritual Singles in 2013. They went on to shoot this movie with Erika Lust when they were in their early 70s. Their missions with it was to show the world how they have sex as a couple in their 70s. Specifically to show their way of having what they term “slow sex” – that they have every day no less.
5. Age & Beauty series on Adult Time
Focusing on mature women porn performers, the Age & Beauty series by Adult Time offers hot encounters between older women and their younger admirers. Discover new mature performers and see how much the younger men lust after them.
6. Confessions of a Sinful Nun volume 1
I’m including this movie for one scene and one scene only. The hot lesbian sex between Nina Hartley and Mona Wales. Nina as the authoritarian Mother Superior dealing with forbidden convent behavior is exactly what we need to see.
There is a whole world of mature porn for women out there, you may just have to dig a little deeper to find movies to suit your taste.
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