Porn for Women Who Don’t Like Porn
There are plenty of reasons that some women don’t like watching porn. They might think that wading through hundreds of videos to find the perfect film is a chore. They might not like the themes they’re confronted with on the tube sites, or they might find the categorisation of performers and sex acts objectifying. Whatever the reason, there are plenty of women—and people of all genders—who don’t like watching porn.
It is however a common misconception that *no* women are interested in watching porn. In reality, many women enjoy porn just as much as men do. It’s just that much of the porn that we see has been made by and for the male gaze, with little consideration for women’s desires or pleasure. This leads many women to feeling alienated from porn, and writing it off as something that they’re just not interested in.
As a result, there are a growing number of women making porn specifically for women, featuring diverse and authentic representations of female pleasure and desire. By acknowledging and catering to the unique needs and desires of female viewers, this new wave of pornography has helped to dispel the myth that women are not interested in pornography.
Female sexuality is multifaceted, and women can respond differently to various stimuli. What may be unappealing to one woman may be desirable to another, so we’ve rounded up some of our favorite movies that cater to different tastes and needs.
The best porn for women (who don’t like porn)
What’s been your biggest challenge with finding porn that you like? Check out our recommendations based on your personal needs.
If you need a storyline… Primary
Some folks just can’t handle porn without a storyline, and we can’t blame them. Maybe nothing gets you in the mood quite like a narrative that keeps you on the edge of your seat… or bed. If that sounds like you, the cinematic, adult series Primary is worthy of Netflix and HBO. But luckily for you, it’s on afterglow.
The series explores millennial relationships and non-monogamy through genuine storylines and incredibly arousing sex scenes. It’s hard not to watch the series all in one go as the simultaneous storylines coincide and connect. If you want some storyline with your porn, then this is the series for you.
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If you want to learn something… afterglow eduporn
Who doesn’t want to up their game in the bedroom? Let’s face it, we all want to be confident and skilled lovers, and watching porn that teaches better sex can be both enlightening and entertaining. All of the films in the afterglow eduporn series will turn you on and teach you something at the same time.
Whether you want to learn about your own pleasure through videos such as How to Squirt & How to Blend Orgasms, or if you want to explore other parts of partnered sex such as How to Give a Sensual Massage or How to Peg Someone – these explicit sex ed videos for adults have got you covered. Get ready to take notes.
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If you want real sexual chemistry… Lip Service
Some women crave that authentic spark that you can only get from real couples. Because, let’s face it, there’s nothing quite like the sweet, sweet satisfaction of watching genuine sexual chemistry unfold before your eyes… and maybe picking up a few relationship tips along the way.
Check out performers and real life couple Avery Black and Oliver Davis in Lip Service, an afterglow Original movie that shows what sex between two lovers can look like IRL. Proving that sex doesn’t equal penetration, this movie is hot and relatable – that’s how we like it.
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If you want to see a lot of female orgasms…The Future is Female (Orgasm)
Seeing other women reveling in their pleasure can serve as inspiration, empowering the viewer to explore their own desires and find what truly rocks their world. The afterglow Female Orgasm Compilation features all of the very best female orgasm scenes from our afterglow original films.
Let’s celebrate the joy of pleasure and revel in the sight of women embracing their ecstasy because everyone deserves a mind-blowing, toe-curling, headboard-rattling good time! Dive in if you’re not afraid of getting a little wet.
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If you want a relatable scenario… Tell Me
Some women just need to see porn that looks like something that would happen in their life. What, you mean you’re not ripping the clothes off of your pizza delivery guy? Us neither. When we can imagine ourselves in the action, it makes it even more fun. And what’s something that most of us can relate to? Sex with someone we’ve just met…
In Tell Me, Jessica and Mike meet on Friday night and what’s expected to be a fun night with someone new turns into a very satisfying weekend. This is a three part afterglow original production set over the course of one hot, lustful weekend.
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If you want to see women taking control… Own Me
A lot of porn on the free tube sites reinforces stereotypes of women as passive objects, catering primarily to male fantasies and desires. But seeing women taking the lead in sexual scenarios can inspire confidence, self-expression, and a sense of sexual empowerment for women. By normalizing and showcasing women in control, this type of porn contributes to a more inclusive and equitable representation of sexuality and encourages a healthy exploration of diverse desires and dynamics.
So if you want to see women in positions of control and agency, watch Jet Setting Jasmine as she dominates Sarah Lace in Own Me with impact, pain, temperature, sight, and taste play. Pay attention to their level of communication and the feeling of safety. Ready to give it a try?
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If you want to see a woman giving herself pleasure… Siri Dahl’s Self-Love Routine
We could all do with seeing more women giving themselves pleasure. Not only does it promote sexual agency and self-discovery but it normalizes female masturbation as a natural and enjoyable part of our lives. And we might just learn some new tricks too.
In Siri Dahl’s Self-Love Routine, Siri takes you inside her bedroom to show how she gives herself pleasure. From nipple clamps and self-paddling, to anal play with a dildo – this will inspire you to explore more in your own self-pleasure sessions.
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If you want lesbian sex that isn’t made for the male gaze… Three episode 4
When it comes to lesbian sex in porn, it’s even more important to move away from the male gaze and focus on authentic portrayals that cater to the desires and perspectives of women. By doing so, we challenge the dominant narratives perpetuated by porn that objectifies and hypersexualises lesbian women for the pleasure of male viewers.
In Three episode 4, performers Gia Green and Bunnie Bennett show an accurate and empowering depiction of lesbian sex as the two lovers pleasure each other by candlelight free from the heterosexual gaze.
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If you want to see diverse bodies that you can relate to… Vulva Diversity in Porn Compilation
A lot of porn made for women prioritizes diverse body types, avoiding fetishization and promoting empowerment. By consuming porn that embraces true body diversity, we challenge the notion that there is only one ideal body type, fostering acceptance and positive body image for all genders.
In addition to a range of body types, porn offers a unique opportunity for women to see a range of vulvas in different shapes and sizes, debunking the misconception that pornography promotes a single type. Studies suggest that exposure to diverse vulvas increases satisfaction with one’s own genitals, leading to enhanced arousal, sexual satisfaction, and more frequent orgasms. Where better to see true diversity than in our Vulva Love Compilation that is a true celebration of all the beautiful vulvas in porn that vary in color; hair; clitoris size & shape; and labia length, size & shape.
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If you want authentic t4t sex… No Translation
Representation matters, and sexual empowerment should be inclusive. Mainstream pornography often fails to capture the diverse experiences and desires of trans people, perpetuating stereotypes or fetishizing their bodies. But t4t (trans for trans) sex creates space for trans people to see themselves reflected, celebrating their unique desires, bodies, and experiences.
In No Translation we meet two lovers on a date, exploring each other’s bodies, and having sex the way they want to – free of the cis gaze. In this afterglow original movie starring Lex Valor (they/them) and Roxanna (she/her) trans sexuality is centered and celebrated. Directed by Maximus Skaff (he/they), this is t4t sex at its best.
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If you want to see older performers… Mature Pleasure Stories
There is no reason that your sexuality can not be enjoyed throughout your life and well into your senior years. Older people don’t have to give up the delights of orgasms and pleasure. And enjoying your sexuality means enjoying porn featuring people who look like you and who you can relate to. Thankfully there are a number of porn performers and directors making mature women porn.
Adult performer Cherie DeVille is at her finest in Mature Pleasure Stories. Before leaving for her vacation, Cherie meets her house sitter Lucas Frost to show him around. You can guess where this is going…
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Whether you have reservations about certain aspects of pornography or simply haven’t found content that really gets you going, we encourage you to keep exploring and seeking out porn that caters to your preferences. By actively seeking out and supporting porn that aligns with your values and interests, you contribute to the demand for more inclusive and empowering content. So, don’t be afraid to challenge the status quo, question the narratives, and demand more from your porn.
Whether you’re seeking relatable scenarios, educational experiences, or simply a pleasurable escape, there’s a world of porn waiting for you. So, dive in and explore.
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60% of women are dissatisfied with their sex lives. We’re on a mission to change that.
What if you didn’t have to search to find a body that looks like yours, a sex act that turns you on, or a guided exercise that helps you tell your partner exactly what you’ve been craving?
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