Tell Me What You Like Pleasure Recap
This beautifully shot film – truly absolutely stunning – brings fantasy into reality, literally. Become a voyeur into the pleasure journal of our star as she truly man-ifests her orgasmic dreams into her desired reality. Connection is key here as the acrobatics are kept to a minimum while the pleasure hits a max. Can you count the orgasms?
What you can learn:
- Fantasy vs. Desire
- Self Pleasure
- Sensual Environment
- Emotional Connection as Lubrication
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Here are some themes covered in Tell Me What You Like that you may have noticed:
- Woman On Top – It’s not always the power position, you can control the movement or not (aka continue receiving) from this position.
- Masturbation – it can also be part of and enhance/inform a shared experience.
- Fantasy – Most of this fantasy is about communication and connection more so than specific acts.
- Take It Slow – Pleasure here is about the build up of desire, not necessarily the satisfaction of it.
Fantasy vs. Desire
Fantasy exists solely in the imagination and therefore NOTHING should be off limits, there need not be ANY shame or judgement when it comes to fantasy. Desire on the other hand is about motivation and bringing fantasy to life in the real world. According to Dr. Celeste Holbrook, not everything you fantasize about is necessarily something you want to bring into reality. Desire is a motivation rather than an urge.
Masturbation
Masturbation is a great tool to determine which of your curiosities are purely fantasy vs. desires. It is not an afterthought. In this film, our star sets up the entire environment to be conducive to her pleasure. She starts with full body soft touch, not explicitly sexual, just calming and pleasurable, to ground her nervous system and ready her body for pleasure. Then she uses wine for taste to ground herself in the space using her senses. Planned Parenthood even lists all the health benefits of masturbation, citing it as an important part of a holistic health practice.
Fantasy as Cum-munication
Most of this fantasy is about the communication between them, how it enhances their connection by how they listen to each other, follow each other’s cues, respond to each other’s bodies. She knows what she likes because she writes about it and thinks about it so she can bring what she wants to reality.
Temptress on Top
Top is not always a power position but it can be used to direct physical pleasure with the way you want to move your body and it gives the bottom access to more areas of touch. You can also still receive in this position by allowing the bottom the ability to direct the motion and pace, or you can take back control of those elements.
Did you notice…
- How many candles were in the bathroom?
- What happened among the stars?
- When she switched from “he/him” to “you” when referring to her fantasy man?
- How many times she climaxed? Are you sure you counted correctly? How do you know?
- The bouquet of flowers?
Questions to consider
- Have you ever taken the time to journal about your fantasies? Try it for a week.
- Does eye contact impact the connection you feel when you’re playing with someone(s)?
- If there were no limits whatsoever on what you could do to bring yourself pleasure, what would you do? What would this fantasy include?
- Do you have a Yes No Maybe List? Create a list of fantasy items that you definitely (Yes) want to bring to realized desires, things you might (Maybe) want to, and things you definitely want to keep private in fantasyland (No). Check out this guided sensory workshop for inspiration and support.