Straight Sex Pleasure Recap
Ever fucked so well you traveled through time? Welcome to your newest fantasy! This decade threesome proves that sex and connection are universal through time, space, and gender. No matter what you’re werking with, you’re here to werk it. The two stars of this genderbending queeriosity say, “Fuck time travel! No really. Fuck it,” asking you to put aside your perceived understanding of attraction and sexuality to join them in doing so.
What you can learn:
All dressed up with nowhere to fuck. Wardrobe changes, different makeup or hairstyles and even wigs, can help you feel more comfortable exploring a new or different part of yourself, your sexuality, and your gender expression (which can be as fluid as sexuality).
The only boundary pleasure needs to have is consent. Everything else is there to experiment and play with, without judgement or shame.
Gender is a social agreement based on performance elements: wardrobe, hair, makeup, voice. Our actors played multiple versions of themselves across time and gender roles. Is what society says about the clothes we wear or the way we do our hair or make up what makes us who we are, or is that just an expression of parts of the whole that is us?
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Here are some themes covered in Straight Sex that you may have noticed:
- Lesbian – turns out scissoring isn’t always, if ever, what’s on the menu
- BDSM – leather and bondage can provide all kinds of options for gender role fuckery
- Genderplay – gender is an expression of self within the context of current societal norms and expectations, it is not the same thing as sex (physiology) or sexual orientation (attraction)
While it would have been wonderful to see some ethnic and/or ability diversity in our actors as well, most people can only process so much socialized fuckery at one time. That being said, there were still plenty of juicy things to unpack… and our stars were certainly packing.
Gender fuckery
You’ve probably heard the saying, “Gender is a construct.” But what does that actually mean? Let’s define Gender vs. Sex, which are not synonyms.
The World Health Organisation summarises the difference between sex and gender in the following way:
- Sex refers to “the different biological and physiological characteristics of males and females, such as reproductive organs, chromosomes, hormones, etc.”
- Gender refers to “the socially constructed characteristics of women and men – such as norms, roles and relationships of and between groups of women and men. It varies from society to society and can be changed. The concept of gender includes five important elements: relational, hierarchical, historical, contextual and institutional. While most people are born either male or female, they are taught appropriate norms and behaviours – including how they should interact with others of the same or opposite sex within households, communities and work places. When individuals or groups do not “fit” established gender norms they often face stigma, discriminatory practices or social exclusion – all of which adversely affect health.”
So as you can see, quite literally and by official definition, gender is a social construct and therefore fluid and mutable. And just like flirting and humor, it is deeply rooted in cultural contexts.
Sexual Norms Throughout Time
What makes something deviant? Being outside the norm. What makes something the norm? Time and culture dictate arbitrary norms, they should not dictate who we are allowed to be. Gender expression trends change like memes on Titok, often and arbitrarily.
Take the pressure off yourself. You’re attracted to who and what you’re attracted to. No one else gets to dictate that or tell you what it means.
Did you notice…
- A sexy tucked away birthmark?
- Holier-than-thou earrings?
- Who was packing?
Questions to consider
- Did your level of arousal or attraction to any of the performers change based on hair/wigs, makeup, or costume? Why or what not?
- If a penis-owning man wants to be pegged, does that mean he’s gay? Does your opinion about that change if he’s being pegged by a woman with a strap on?
- What role does gender expression play in your own sexuality or attraction?
- Is attraction about sex, gender, or something else entirely?
- What defines gender and why is it considered so important when we talk about attraction and sex?