Sex at Work: Tips and Tricks
The sexy secretary, the hot construction worker, and the forbidden office romance. In a society that praises and centers workaholism, we seem to have so many collective fantasies about sex at work. Whether it’s thanks to the bleakness of so many business days or the riskiness of it all, a lot of us crave some sexiness in our work lives. Keep reading to find out how to incorporate a little bit of sex at work for either you or your partner!
Disclaimer: As we repeat many times throughout this blog, although it can be fun to incorporate sex at work, it is integral that you respect the boundaries and privacy of everyone involved. We do not condone unwanted sexual advances in any environment. Remember to only engage in consensual and respectful behavior. This includes refraining from sexual behavior and activity with your co-workers.
Send sexy texts/photos
The workday grind can often leave us feeling drained and disconnected from our partners. Whether you’re in a long-term relationship or just getting to know someone, keeping the spark alive is essential. Sometimes, all it takes is a quick flirty text or photo to make your partner’s day. Not only does it add excitement to your relationship, but it also helps maintain a healthy connection during the workday. For instance, you can send texts like “I can’t stop thinking about what you did to me last night,” or “I’m craving you so bad today.” Alternatively, you can take a picture in your favorite lingerie or using your best sex toy.
However, it’s always important to remember boundaries and respect your partner’s workplace environment. Be mindful of the timing of your messages. Avoid sending a barrage of texts/photos during busy work hours or meetings. Instead, send them during your partner’s break times or lunchtime when they’re likely to have a moment to respond. Also, be mindful of their privacy if they’re in a shared space at work (the invisible ink function on iMessage is key here).
Have fun on your break
What better way to spend a work break than absolutely railing your partner? Organizing a quickie with your partner can be a super hot way to not only blow off some work steam, but also connect intimately with them. Having sex on a work break can make you both feel irresistible, needed, and craved. Although it may seem cute to surprise your partner, it may be better to organize beforehand so there is clear communication and stress is minimized. For instance, make sure you pick a place that is convenient for the partner who is working. It’s essential to select a spot that won’t make them feel uncomfortable or put them in a difficult situation. Furthermore, work breaks are limited, so make sure to use your time wisely. Set clear expectations with your partner when you meet and stick to the agreed time. Lastly, while meeting your partner during work breaks can be exciting, remember that it’s not always a guarantee. Your partner may have work-related emergencies or feel too tired to meet, and it’s essential to respect their wishes. Don’t take it personally if they can’t meet, and be patient with their work schedule.
Leave them sexy notes
Leaving sexy notes for your partner is a perfect way to surprise them and brighten up their work day. Whether it’s a short and straightforward message tucked into their lunchbox or a long, handwritten letter slipped under their pillow, they can hold onto your arousing message throughout the day. You can even get creative by writing a poem, drawing a picture, or putting a lipstick kiss on it. As we’ve stated before, however, it is important that you respect your partners’ boundaries and professional life. Make sure the note isn’t placed somewhere it can easily slip out or be seen by their coworkers. You can even let them know you’ve left them a note that should be opened up in private.
Flirt while they work
Flirting is such an important part of foreplay, and it can be a fun way to keep things spicy with your partner. While it’s easy to flirt when you’re out on a date or spending quality time together, have you ever considered flirting with your partner while they work? Flirting with your partner during their busy workday can be a sweet and unexpected surprise that can brighten up their day. For instance, you could give them a call during their day and engage in some flirty banter. Furthermore, if they work from home, you can let them know how hot they look or how their professionalism turns you on. This can even apply if your partner is working on projects around the house. However, remember to respect workplace boundaries if you work with your partner or visit them at their job.
Watch work-themed porn
We’ve covered a variety of ways in which you can incorporate sex at work. However, maybe you are just ultra-professional and love the fantasy of sex at work, but are a bit nervous about actually acting on it. Not to worry! A great way to indirectly fulfill this fantasy is by watching workplace-themed porn. There are so many hot options, a couple of which we have included below!
Pervy Plumber
If you’re turned on by the famous plumber porn trope, this film is for you! With a queer feminist comedic twist, Pervy Plumber will be sure to not only satisfy your sex at work fantasy, but also keep you wondering what comes next.
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Merger
Have you ever been at a staff meeting and started fantasizing about your hot co-worker? While we would definitely recommend keeping your workplace professional and respecting boundaries IRL, there is nothing wrong with watching a film with this exact plot! Check out Merger to find out what happens when you pursue that forbidden workplace hookup.
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We hope these tips are helpful in getting you through the work day. Remember to incorporate sex at work in ways that are not only sexy, but also respect the boundaries of everyone involved!
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