So what did you think of Tease Me Ready?

Tease Me Ready shows a sensual beautiful sexual encounter between queer couple Neen and Dante. 

What you can learn from Tease Me Ready:

  • How passionately kissing your partner is foreplay
  • How to tease your partner
  • How to have sensual sex

Here are some themes covered in Tease Me Ready that you may have noticed:

  • Teasing
  • Kissing
  • Foreplay

Teasing

Sexual teasing is a form of provocation characterized by the promise of sexual contact followed by withdrawal. The intention is to frustrate or cause tension in the target. It’s a form of playful bonding that shows you can be vulnerable and comfortable with a person.  In Tease Me Ready, we see Neen & Dante kiss, then stop. Neen teases Dante by putting her finger in his mouth. Dante blows on Neen’s vulva, making her ask for more.  Once penetration starts, there’s not as much explicit teasing, though the text we see interrupting the action form a kind of teasing unto itself.  It’s surprising this film doesn’t include a bit of edging, or stretching out how long it takes to orgasm during sex, but maybe after all that foreplay it was time to stop the tease and get down to business.

Kissing

Famous couples therapists John and Julie Gottman discovered that kissing your partner intentionally for just six seconds at once can release oxytocin and improve trust and intimacy. How often do we sit and actually take that moment to connect? 

During foreplay and sex, kissing is equally as important. Tease Me Ready devotes a full 4 of its 14 minutes of runtime to kissing.  Even after Neem and Dante begin penetration there’s still moments of kissing that make the encounter feel more intimate. Kissing can reduce cortisol levels, reducing stress and anxiety, and even lower your blood pressure. Couples who kiss more often report higher levels of relationship satisfaction and sexual satisfaction.

Try it at home: Try choosing a specific amount of time to only kiss before you move on to other types of foreplay – like 5 or 10 minutes. See how the anticipation and arousal builds from this simple act.

Foreplay

Tease Me Ready showcases a multitude of creative ways to go beyond the usual sexual script and create the tension of the tease. The moment when Dante grabs and pulls Neens underwear, increasing the pressure against her vulva. How Dante teases Neen by kissing her thigh, then letting her feel his breath on her vulva until she begs him “more tounge please.” We also see communication as foreplay, with Neen saying “You are so fucking good” and “I like your eyes.” Sometimes all it takes is a simple compliment to get the spark of attraction going.

Did you notice?

  • There’s practically zero shots of Dante’s full penis in this film. We get a glimpse around 9:55 when he’s putting on a condom and at 10:30 when he’s changing positions but that’s about it!

Fun Fact – Find out if they are a real life couple

Questions to consider

  • Which parts of this film did you find most arousing?
  • What did the slow pace / teasing of this film do for you?
  • What types of teasing / foreplay from this film are you interested in bringing into your own life? Why?
  • What did you think of the text portions of this film? How did it impact your viewing experience?