by Dakota Ramppen

In this sensual film, body language takes center stage as a powerful form of communication. While enjoying a glass of orange juice, Nata catches Jesús’s gaze, their flirty energy sparking in a shared house full of strangers. Later, their connection deepens in a brightly lit room, where soft caresses and unspoken desires build to an electrifying climax. Without words, they say it all.

What You Can Learn

• Body language is a form of communication.
• Observing how your partner touches themselves offers clues to enhance their pleasure. 
• The thrill of being watched or “caught” can heighten excitement.
• Staying fully present during sex deepens connection and sensation.
• Foreplay can look like a lot of things — eye contact, soft touches and mutual masturbation can all set the stage for intimacy.

Key Themes

• Body language
• Eye contact
• Voyeurism

Body Language

This film highlights how body language can convey desires more powerfully than words. From a lingering glance to the gentle brush of a hand, these subtle signals create an unspoken dialogue that builds tension and intimacy. Research suggests that nonverbal cues account for 60-93% of human communication, making them vital in sexual encounters. 

Yet, mainstream films often ignore the nuanced role of body language, focusing instead on dialogue or overt actions. What sets this film apart is its commitment to showing how attuned partners can use physical cues to communicate their desires and boundaries. For viewers looking to deepen this connection, somatic sex education offers practical tools to become more aware of your body and its signals. Resources like The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk delve into how the body stores and communicates emotions, making it a great starting point.

How does body language affect your intimate life? Take time to consider what cues you may find attractive in others, or what cues you use to show attraction. For instance, if your go-to flirting technique is complimenting your crush, it may be worth considering how you can incorporate more dirty talk in the bedroom.

Eye Contact: A Gateway to Intimacy

Eye contact is often overlooked in sexual narratives, yet it’s one of the most potent ways to establish trust and intimacy. In this film, the charged exchanges of gaze between Nata and Jesús turn seemingly mundane moments into preludes to passion. Scientific studies confirm that eye contact activates the brain’s reward system, releasing oxytocin—the “love hormone”—and fostering emotional connection. The unexpected focus on this theme contrasts with mainstream depictions of hurried or purely physical encounters, reminding viewers to slow down and savor the moment. However, the film could have explored the potential vulnerability or discomfort eye contact can evoke, especially for individuals healing from past trauma. 

For those curious about incorporating more eye contact into their intimacy, tools like Tantra exercises or guided practices from Urban Tantra by Barbara Carrellas can help. One simple way to prioritize eye contact with your partner is to be intentional with your sex positions. For instance, try holding eye contact during missionary or even look back during doggy. 

Voyeurism: The Thrill of Being Seen

The film subtly explores voyeurism through the tension of public spaces, where Nata and Jesús navigate the excitement of being watched or “caught.” This concept, often stigmatized or sensationalized in mainstream media, is presented here as a consensual and thrilling aspect of their connection. Research in sex therapy shows that the allure of voyeurism often stems from a mix of adrenaline and the validation of being desired. What’s refreshing in this portrayal is the lack of shame or taboo; instead, the film frames voyeuristic elements as a playful and consensual exploration of boundaries. That said, a deeper dive into consent and communication around these scenarios would have added depth to the narrative. For those interested in exploring this dynamic, resources like Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski or workshops on erotic communication can provide valuable insights.

For those curious about bringing voyeuristic elements into their own sex lives, it doesn’t have to mean performing for a crowd. It can start small—like leaving the curtains slightly open, letting the idea of being seen add an edge of excitement. Or take it outside: a secluded night-time lookout and the backseat of a car can do wonders.

Did You Notice?

• Jesus watches Nata walk away and shakes his head. This leaves the viewer to imagine what he might be thinking using their own creativity and desires as a foundation to fill in the gaps on their non-verbal communication.
• As Jesus and Nata begin to play, there are people staying at the same house walking in the background adding a new level of eroticism to their already existing passion.
•  A curious viewer’s reflection is seen later on, peering through the large glass windows to observe Nata and Jesus’ fun. Regardless of those passing by in the background, they are locked in to one another while being present in the moment.
• Jesus’s body language as he moves away from eating out Nata gives her the cue that he’s ready to take it to the next level. She follows his lead as he lays back on the couch and begins to straddle him.
• Nata frequently caresses her own breasts and nipples, supplementing her pleasure. Jesus takes note of this and begins to lick and suck on her nipples as he rides on top.

Fun Fact

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Questions to Consider 

• What can non-verbal communication look like for you regarding sex?
• How can you use sensual touch as a form of foreplay?
• Do you steer away from eye contact? If so, why is that?
• How could Jesus and Nata have given verbal consent? What could they have said?
• Is there a way you can utilize eye contact to enhance your sexual experience?
• How does Jesus use his body language to signal to Nata what he wants to do next?
• Would you be interested in having sex with someone in this setting? Visible to others?