If there’s one thing we love at afterglow, it’s porn for couples. When used intentionally, porn can be an excellent tool for learning new sex tips, getting in the mood with your partner, exploring kinks, and even for just spicing up your typical routine. 

Still, it’s important to address the elephant in the room: a lot of porn isn’t great for women. When it comes to mainstream porn sites, most of the films are made by and for the male gaze, riddled with stereotypes, unrealistic body standards, and harmful fetishes. In other words, there’s a million reasons as to why your girlfriend would be hesitant about bringing porn into the bedroom. 

But here’s the thing – not all porn has to make you feel icky. Ethical porn companies, like afterglow, prioritize platforming films that avoid typical industry practices. Our founding principles are centered around fair treatment of performers, displaying realistic pleasure, and avoiding harmful stereotypes and kinks. We create films like eduporns and couples-focused videos, designed to inspire viewers to use adult content as a tool for building deeper connections and gaining valuable insights from what they watch.

So, if you’re looking for porn your girlfriend will actually like, you’ve come to the right place. All of our films are made by and for women. Still, like all sex acts, it’s important to remember that incorporating porn into your relationship should only be done with full enthusiastic consent from both partners. If your girlfriend says no, or even seems hesitant, either drop the idea completely or revisit the conversation gently at a later date. People with responsive desire’s arousal levels will shut down under expectations. Like we said, porn is supposed to feel fun, not icky – meaning both partners should be fully on board. 

With that being said, here are some of our top recommendations for porn your girlfriend will actually like. 

Girlsplaining

Girlsplaining is a film that beautifully portrays how open communication and genuine confidence can enhance the intimacy and pleasure in a loving relationship. When was the last time you did stand up for your own desires or ask your partner to do so? Being outspoken in bed is sexy.

Expressing your needs and setting boundaries allows your partner to truly connect with you, creating the foundation for great sex. Watching this film together can spark meaningful conversations and help couples navigate the dance between each other’s needs, turning fantasy into a reality that’s both intimate and deeply satisfying. Plus, unlike most films, this one centers the woman as the communicator, offering a refreshing perspective and a valuable learning opportunity for anyone accustomed to male-dominated dynamics.

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Sensory Play with Real-Life Couple

Chris and Kate Marley, a married couple, reveal another of their sex routines. This video is all about sensory play, as Kate takes control of her husband’s pleasure. Blindfolded and tied to the bed Chris surrenders to his wife. Sometimes she gently touches his body or caresses his balls. Other times she whips him for more intense stimulation. Kate’s intimate teasing has no end, and Chris enjoys it. 

Watching porn featuring real-life couples like Chris and Kate Marley can be a great choice for couples who want to explore new dynamics together. Seeing genuine chemistry and trust between partners can make the experience feel more relatable and less performative, creating a comfortable entry point for viewers new to adult content. It also provides realistic examples of communication, consent, and mutual pleasure—essential elements for building deeper intimacy in your own relationship. Plus, it’s a chance to spark new ideas and discuss fantasies in a way that feels natural and inspiring.

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Cunnilingus: A Guided Partnered Practice

Prepare for some toe-curling, sheet-grabbing, loud-moaning cunnilingus. This guided oral sex practice will give guidance and instructions to help both the giver and receiver be more curious, creative, and playful to expand your realm of pleasure. There are no rules here so feel free to improvise. The giver will start offering some sensual touch on the receiver’s body, stroking the body, You’ll start taking a few deep breaths together and engaging in whole body touch to warm up. The giver will then be guided through touching the pussy before moving on to pleasure her with their mouth.

It is recommended that both consenting participants are fully comfortable and in their pleasure before starting this practice. Spend some time beforehand connecting with each other, sharing any fears, desires and boundaries, and getting in the mood for sensual exploration. 

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How to give a sensual massage

Do you want to give your partner a romantic rub down? From what oil to use to how to hit the sweet spots just right, Daisy Ducati and Leya Falcon teach you how to give your partner a romantic massage. Massages are a great way to build intimacy and trust in a relationship — so why not watch with a partner and follow along?

Unlike mainstream porn, this film is an intimate guide designed to teach you something valuable. Daisy and Leya’s tutorial blends sensuality with education, offering practical tips for building connection and trust. It’s a gentler, more thoughtful approach to adult content that’s perfect for couples looking to explore new ways to bond while learning together.

Watch here.