Dare to explore: sex challenges to try with your partner
Even the hottest couples hit autopilot. The best cure? Novelty. Science says its the secret sauce to keeping things electric. Our spicy little sex challenges are here to shake things up—and paired with our afterglow ethical porn? They’re your foreplay.
1. The sensual massage challenge
Take turns giving each other full-body massages. Experiment with different types of touch, massage oils, candles, and anything else you want to create a relaxing and sensual atmosphere. There’s no need to have sex, this is just about making your partner feel good and worshiping their body.
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2. Watch porn with your partner challenge
Swap the usual dinner and movie for a cozy evening exploring ethical porn together. Watching porn as a couple can open up conversations about fantasies, deepen intimacy, and add excitement to your relationship. Studies show that couples who watch porn together have higher sexual satisfaction and openness.
Start by dscussing boundaries and preferences to ensure you’re both comfortable. Choose content that aligns with your shared interests, and remember to keep communication open and judgment-free. Whether you’re curious about new kinks or just want to try something different, this shared experience can bring you closer and make your connection even more electrifying.
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3. Fantasy jar challenge
Grab a jar or any empty vessel, write down at least ten fantasies each on small pieces of paper. Take a couple of minutes to explain why each particular fantasy was added, and make sure both partners are a “hell yes” to each fantasy. These can include anything from role play ideas to make out sessions. Ensure respect, honesty, and no fear of judgment – planning your fantasies together is part of the fun!
Each week, take turns drawing a fantasy from the jar and bringing it to life.
Want to see what this can look like? Watch Bishop & Kali play a similar game in the film Wild Card.
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4. What's your fantasy? challenge
Let one partner take the lead. This partner’s job is to narrate their fantasy and tell the other partner exactly what they want. The following partner is not allowed to do anything the leading partner doesn’t specifically request. You’ll soon find how hard it is to be the one driving all the time, and how much we expect our partners to “just know” about what we want. Yet when we take the time to communicate and explain, the results can be explosive.
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