So what did you think of Mutual Masturbation?

Mutual Masturbation is a fun exploration of all the ways one can touch oneself and one’s partner.  Ella Venus and Bishop Black are making out to one of their favorite porn films – Love Your Cunt. The unexpected twist unfolds when Kali Sudhra, one of the performers, materializes in their bedroom and starts watching them having sex.

What you can learn from Mutual Masturbation:

  • Positions and ways to masturbate together with any genitals
  • How to prepare for anal sex
  • New ways to play with a penis (i.e. a vibrator)
  • How to turn a little awkwardness into fun

Here are some themes covered in Mutual Masturbation that you may have noticed:

  • Penis play
  • Mutual Masturbation
  • Anal sex

Penis Play

It takes a minute when watching this firm to realize that Ella Venus is a trans woman. The way she and Bishop interact with her penis in this sexual encounter isn’t the typical cishet blowjob & penetration you see most in mainstream porn.  First, they grind and kiss, with some foreplay that’s applicable to all sexual orientations.

Then, Ella starts loving on Bishop’s cock, swirling around his tip while eyeing Kali/the camera with some voyeuristic love. She almost teases his cock with her nipple, but not quite.  And…Bishop gives her butt a lot of love too, as we dive into later.

Often in mainstream porn, trans porn is fetishized, with lots of focus on “girl with a cock,” whereas this film provides a more intimate, natural encounter with less focus on genitalia.  In Mutual Masturbation, at one point Ella uses a Magic Wand to play with the tip of her penis. The Magic Wand is such an iconic toy its become a symbol of feminism and sexual liberation, so its a fun twist to see it continue that legacy bringing pleasure to trans women – and to any penis owners who’d like to try it!

Mutual Masturbation

This film has masturbation on masturbation on masturbation! At one point, Kali Sudra is fingering herself by herself, while Bishop is fingering Ella while he’s also stroking himself and while Ella is stroking herself and playing with herself with a toy. That’s a lot of touching going on – who said foreplay was boring!?!!!?!!

After Kali jumps out of the screen and begins to play with her vulva, Bishop plays lovingly with Ella’s asshole, and she also plays with it herself.  The film is just over halfway done before any penetration happens versus a few cursory minutes of foreplay in more traditional porn films.

And just because penetration begins, doesn’t mean other types of play are over. Towards the end, Bishop takes foreplay in a whole new experimental direction, licking Ella’s armpit. She stops and giggles and when he checks in says “It was interesting, I didn’t expect you to lick my armpit.”  The moment stays fun and lighthearted and Ella chooses to try something new again, eventually enjoying it!

For more information on butt pay, read below and check out Lola Jean’s How to Massage the Prostate and Prepare for Pegging. It’s intended for male butt play but much can be applicable for women too!

Anal Sex

Mutual Masturbation provides a more realistic view on anal sex. Ella is not immediately ready, Bishop spends a significant amount of time warming her up, touching around the rim of her asshole, and fingering it, as well as providing other types of foreplay.

Then, Bishop puts a condom on and lots of (presumably silicone) lube to further make things easier.  Things do get going pretty quickly, with Ella’s legs immediately up to her head, but let’s assume that these two know each other’s bodies and maybe are even hamming it up a bit for Kali’s pleasure.  Bishop asks Ella if it’s ok and she verbally confirms, he doesn’t just assume that because she’s moaning it means everything is fine.

Did you notice?

  • Kali says “I love being watched, and I love watching, too. It’s kind of my thing.” and Bishop and Ella agree. This might be a tongue in cheek nod to them being porn performers, who are watched having sex for a living!

Fun Fact – The film Ella Venus and Bishop Black are watching in the beginning of the film is also an afterglow favorite: Love Your Cunt.

Questions to consider

  • How was it watching Ella, a trans performer? How did it affect your enjoyment of this film?  How was it different from typical porn? How was it the same?
  • Do you or would you enjoy watching?  Why or why not?
  • Do you or would you enjoy being watched?  Why or why not?
  • Do you feel like the voyeuristic plotline influenced the sex Bishop and Ella were having? 
  • Do you feel like the film delivered on its title of Mutual Masturbation? Why or why not?