Set in the 1970s, this film showcases the fun time that eight individuals have when they show up to a dinner party in couples but decide to switch things up a bit once they arrive. Picking keys out of a bowl, these folks enjoy the taste of something new at this casual, upbeat swingers party. Let’s dive into what this movie can teach you.

What You Can Learn from It:

  • What is a key party
  • Is there a difference between swinging and an open relationship 
  • How important is the community  
  • What are some rules for consensual non-monogamy
  • What is cheating when it comes to open relationships
  • Is edging better than orgasm

Swinging isn’t just for the wildhearted, the desperate, or the frenzy. The swinging community is full of diverse individuals who value consent, respect, and honest communication in their relationships. It’s about more than just sex; it’s about shared intimate experiences. 

Swinging vs open relationships

Open relationship is a type of consensual non-monogamy where one or both partners can explore sexual—and sometimes even emotional—connections with other people. In contrast to swinging, which is typically all about having sex with others in a party or group setting (often with established couples). People in open relationships might hook up with someone they’re attracted to, but the key is that those relationships usually stay casual, without getting too emotionally intense.

Swinging comes in different styles. There’s “soft swap,” where couples might enjoy kissing, touching, and oral sex, but there is no penetration. Then there’s “full swap,” which involves everything, including intercourse.

Isn’t that cheating? 

One of the benefits of swinging is increased communication. To be a swinger means knowing your own boundaries and being super clear about them with your partner. What’s okay with you? What feels off-limits? Having these conversations can actually strengthen your relationship, helping you build deeper trust and intimacy with your beloved.

The line between cheating and ethical consensual non-monogamy is very personal. What’s cheating is for you might not be the same for another person. Even in monogamous relationships, partners can have different opinions – is flirting cheating? Is subscribing to an Onlyfans cheating? It can be very subjective and that is why communication is so important when you decide to try a modern lifestyle. When you and your lover are on the same page and agree on what’s okay, you’re in the clear! And remember, your “rules” might evolve over time, so it’s important to check in regularly to see how you’re both feeling. Keep those conversations going—it’s key to keeping things healthy and fun.

21st Century Take on Key Party

Back in the 1970s, “key parties” were very popular among swinging couples. The idea was simple but bold: everyone would toss their car keys into a bowl, and at the end of the night, you’d pull a random set of keys and go home with whoever they belonged to. It was a fun, no-strings-attached way to mix things up! Fast forward to today, and while the concept is still alive, it’s gotten a bit of a modern makeover. Instead of keys in a bowl, couples now connect through apps—think of it like Tinder for swingers—where they can match with others who share similar interests. If you would like to find an app that works for you, check this list of most popular swinging apps. 

If you’re curious about diving into this world, you’ll want to look up “lifestyle parties.” That’s the updated term people are using these days instead of “swingers parties.” If you want to find a lifestyle community in your area, just hit Google with “lifestyle club + [your city]” and see what pops up.

There’s Something for Everyone

The film Key Party sheds some light on a more inclusive version of these parties, focusing on bisexual experiences rather than sticking to the typical heterosexual dynamic. In the ’70s, swinging was often pretty straightforward—guys would toss their keys in, and women would pick one and head home with the guy attached to those keys. Very straight, right? But now, with a broader understanding of human sexuality, it’s clear that swinging isn’t just for people attracted to the opposite sex.

In the film, there’s a lot of variety in sexual dynamics, and bisexuality takes center stage! Plus, there’s even some voyeurism thrown into the mix—like at 04:49, when one guest gets turned on by watching another couple in action. It’s a whole new world of possibilities, and Key Party definitely makes it look like an exciting adventure.

Things to consider

Practicing safe sex and good hygiene is a must. Regular STI screenings are important, and don’t forget to bring condoms to any party or meet-up. You can even pack your favorite lube and sex toys to enhance the experience. And, a little grooming goes a long way! Feeling fresh and confident will help everyone enjoy themselves to the fullest.

Edging: The Secret to Building Pleasure

Unlike most porn, Key Party doesn’t fixate on the typical “money shot”—the moment of orgasm or ejaculation. Instead, it focuses on the build-up. The film is all about teasing and prolonging the pleasure.

So what’s edging? It’s when you or your partner get close to climax, but stop right before reaching orgasm. You do this several times to heighten the eventual release. The idea is to draw out the pleasure and make the orgasm even more intense. Sounds like a challenge worth trying, right?

Did You Notice?

One thing that stands out in Key Party is the absence of anal penetrative sex between two male performers – we would say it’s a pretty common thing in gay porn. Instead, we see hand stroking and oral pleasure. There’s even a super hot moment at 14:41 where both guys hold their penises together and stroke them at the same time!

What You Don’t See

You probably noticed that there are no condoms or barriers used in this film. What you don’t see, and what’s often not shown on screen in most adult content, is that performers get tested for sexually transmitted infections (STIs) regularly—sometimes as often as every two weeks. So while it might not be shown on screen, it’s an important part of any intimate encounter (either for film or in real life!).

Fun Facts:

In Key Party, we get a rare peek into something we don’t often see in adult films — people getting dressed after sex! It’s such a real-life moment, and some people actually enjoy watching it because it feels more authentic.

Questions to Consider:

  • How do you feel about consensual non-monogamy? Would you try it?
  • What do you think about swinging parties? Could it be fun, or not your vibe?
  • Do you enjoy watching your partner get dressed after sex?
  • Have you tried edging before? If yes, how was it? If not, are you curious?
  • How often do you get tested for STIs?