You’ve probably heard the rumor already – porn is a great way to spice up sex with your partner. Watching porn together can spark amazing conversations around sex, inspire you to explore new things, and even safely explore kinks you may not be sure about. And while we recommend watching porn for every couple, we get it. Sometimes, like all new sex acts, it can be a little bit awkward and unfamiliar.
To help you out, we’ve come up with some sexy games for you to incorporate while you watch porn with a partner. Hopefully, these games will spark communication, exploration, and maybe even some orgasms. And don’t worry – we’ve also included films with each game. So if you’re looking to spice up your next game night, we’ve got you covered.
No Touching
The only thing hotter than intimacy with your partner is the thought of intimacy with your partner. That’s why we love teasing. Porn can be used as an excellent form of foreplay, especially when you make a challenge out of it. Try implementing a “no touching” rule while watching a film – and while touching may be off the table, dirty talk absolutely isn’t. We recommend selecting a film with a lot to talk about, like Domliest Dom. You can tell your partner what you want to do to them, how good they’d look doing certain things, and build up the tension until the film is over.
Recommended film: Domliest Dom
Isabel and Marcus meet in a hotel room for their playful BDSM session. It all begins in a way you might expect: she arranges for a Dom online, he arrives, and they ease into it with some light sensory play, like a bit of spanking. But as the teasing goes on and there isn’t enough payoff, the Sub starts getting antsy. That’s when Isabel takes over. She ties Marcus and starts playing with him, but this time, she makes sure there’s plenty of reward for both of them.
Mirroring
The biggest tip that we recommend to folks when watching porn with their partner is to try copying things that they like on screen. When watching porn, you and your partner can pick a porn star to mirror. Everything that your favorite porn star does or demands of their partner, you follow. For instance, let’s say you pick our film Girlsplaining. One partner will act as Nicole (the girlsplainer) and the other will act as Jonte. Whatever they do, you follow! When Nicole says “kiss me slowly,” you’ll kiss your partner slowly! We recommend picking a strong duo film with lots of buildup so things are easy to follow along to.
Recommended film: Girlsplaining
Girlsplaining is a film that beautifully portrays how open communication and genuine confidence can enhance the intimacy and pleasure in a loving relationship. When was the last time you did stand up for your own desires or ask your partner to do so? Being outspoken in bed is sexy. Being outspoken about our needs and desires in bed helps us to set boundaries, allows our partner to truly engage with us and eventually opens the door to great sex. Sex between people isn’t „magically great“ from the beginning. No! Maybe in movies or fantasies, but in reality sex is a dance between our and our partner‘s needs. Everyone should feel empowered to speak up. Give yourself a voice and listen carefully.
Kiss When You’re Turned On
As we mentioned, porn can be a great way to build tension with your partner. It can also be a great way to talk about things you may want to explore with your partner. The next time you watch porn with a partner, try kissing them everytime you see something that turns you on. This way, you’re not only seducing your partner, but letting them know what you like or don’t like on screen. For this game, we recommend a film with a lot going on. This way, you can explore as much as possible with your partner and see what turns them on. (psst… we never said where to kiss your partner ;))
Recommended film: The Key Party
Set in the 1970s this film showcases the fun time that 8 queer individuals have when they show up to a dinner party in couples but decide to switch things up a bit once they arrive. Picking keys out of a bowl, these folks enjoy the taste of something new at this casual, upbeat swingers party. It’s also a great inspiration for a consensual-swingers party. Just put the keys in a bowl and see what the faith prepared for you and your guests.
Remove one clothing item every 5 minutes
When you’re watching porn with your partner, it’ll be hard not to rip all of their clothes off immediately. Well, what if we slowed this process down a bit to build sexual tension? When watching porn, try setting a timer that lets you remove one piece of clothing every 5 (or however many) minutes. You can either remove your own clothes or remove your partner’s clothes. We just hope you last the 5 minutes!
Recommended film: Gang Car Bang
Get down ‘n’ dirty on the back of a vintage Old Timer with some greasy mechanics. Gabi Gold drives into a car repair shop and immediately feels the gawking stares of its workers on her, but it’s more than a car service that she’s looking for. This film by HardWerk is a cinematic take on the classic gangbang and a nod to the trope of “a stranger steps into a saloon”.
Which game made you most excited to try? Are you going to mix and match our films with the games that we recommended? Let us know!