Connie Collins is a Brown University honors graduate in Gender & Sexuality Studies, an award-winning porn studies scholar, and a sex educator with over five years of experience specializing in kink literacy and survivor support. She’s the founder of Get F*cked, a newsletter for adventurous romantics, and Venus Ghostwriting, where she creates lead magnets for dating and intimacy brands. Connie has worked with the likes of Cornell University’s Act for Youth, Erika Lust Films, and Hacienda. You can find more of her work at @thefirstdatediaries.