Read My Lips : Don’t Stop (pt. 5)

When you start getting into the kinky stuff, spanking often pops up as the first thing to try out. You might use your hand, a spatula, or whatever else feels right. But how can you be sure you’re hitting with just the right force? And how does your partner let you know if they want more? Well, experienced BDSM folks have already figured out a handy tool for this: the traffic light system. Here’s how it works: when your partner says “green,” they’re all good and want you to keep going; “orange” means they’re getting close to their limit, and “red” means stop right there. Check out this video where Diosa Mor and Nate Ocean show how they use the traffic light system to communicate during their BDSM play. It’s a helpful way to ensure everyone’s on the same page and having a good time.