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Nancy and Noble have been together for 20 years and enjoy using porn in their relationship as a shared intimate act. Although it’s hard to find time in their busy schedules with children and work, they have fun watching afterglow together when they can. “We are very sexually active. We're in an open marriage. We're swingers and we’re very promiscuous, you could say,” Noble explains. But despite their lifestyle, they have the same challenges as a lot of couples when it comes to finding time for intimacy and finding porn that they enjoy watching together. Like others, the couple have [...]

Sex fantasy or desire? If you’re wondering, “aren’t all sexual fantasies ultimately sexual desires?”. No, not necessarily.  We often use these terms interchangeably but they actually mean very different things. What is a sexual fantasy?  A fantasy is something that lives in our head. It is created through our imagination, we can imagine it in great detail and replay it over and over, but it may never come to life. Almost everyone (97-98%) reports having sexual fantasies, and having them often (Davidson, 1985; Lehmiller, 2018; Pelletier & Herold, 1988).  “[A fantasy is] almost any mental imagery that is sexually arousing [...]

Whether you’ve had enough of watching hardcore porn, you want a bit more sensuality in your life, or you’re just in the mood for something softer for a change, soft porn for women is popular for a reason.  What is soft porn for women?  The definition of softcore porn is quite subjective and it can change depending on who you ask.  Generally, it is assumed that softcore porn is a gentler (softer) alternative to hardcore pornography. It usually places a greater emphasis on sensuality than other sex films, and in it the performers may spend more time kissing and caressing.  [...]

We may think of ourselves as progressive and sex positive, but many of us have a very limited idea of who should actually be having sex. What comes to mind when you picture old people being intimate? When was the last time you thought about porn for mature women?  Older people are often left out of the sex positive conversation. In fact, they’re not just left out, they’re completely invisible. There is a pervasive attitude that older people just don’t have sex and when we’re asked to imagine it, we often cringe at the idea. Senior sex is thought of [...]

Most people have experienced that overwhelming feeling of relationship jealousy that seems to creep up on you and take control of your body. Whether it’s over a stranger in a bar or your partner’s gaze as someone walks by – no matter how much you may hate it, jealousy in a relationship is common regardless of your age, sexuality, or gender. But what about people in non-monogamous relationships? They’re regularly in situations that have the opportunity to ignite jealousy and yet they choose not to close their relationships. Do they not feel jealousy at all?  Luke, who is non-monogamous and [...]

Are you interested in making a sex tape with your partner(s)?  There’s something very erotic about having a recording of you and your lover(s) having sex. Maybe you’ll get off on watching it back or perhaps you just want the thrill of making it. Whatever your reason, homemade sexy videos can be super hot when they’re done right and they can be a hot, bonding experience for you and your partner(s).  But first you need to know what you’re doing. Here’s everything you need to know about how to make your own amateur porn film at home, including some expert [...]

Are you ready to put the chill back into “Netflix & Chill”? Getting in the mood for sex can be difficult – mismatched libidos, life stresses, burn out – you name it, there are a lot of things that can get in the way of your sexy time. But watching porn sites for couples can help you get in the mood for sex, discover new sexual fantasies, and spark some interesting and insightful conversations with your partner. Not to mention it can also be a very hot date night activity.🔥 Watching porn with your partner presents a lot of [...]

For most people in a relationship, watching porn is a regular activity and is not considered cheating. But for other people, it is. In some monogamous relationships watching porn is a gray area. It’s an activity that is usually done in private without telling your partner which leads to the question… is watching porn cheating?  Our lives and our relationships are becoming increasingly digitalized, and with that, the once clear line between fidelity and cheating is now blurred. As we explore our sexualities online—through dating apps, kink & fetish apps, pornography, cam rooms, sexting, and forums—what we consider cheating is [...]

Just like in other industries, it’s not unusual for adult performers to meet on the job and become real life couples in porn. Whether they’ve celebrated a decade of marriage or have been dating for a few years, there are plenty of real porn couples who help us believe in love.  Some are monogamous, some are polyamorous, but all of them show that love and commitment is absolutely possible when you’re an adult performer, despite what society may lead us to believe. They remind us that sex work is work, and what happens on screen is their livelihood not their [...]

Why do I have to be drunk to be intimate? Sober sex expert Tawny Lara tells us all about dating sober and how to be intimate without alcohol.