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6 Amazing Vulva-on-Vulva Sex Positions You Must Try!

2021-02-04
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6 Amazing Vulva-on-Vulva Sex Positions You Must Try!

Whether you’re new to girl-on-girl sexual experiences or you’re just looking for some new ideas to bring into the bedroom, we’ve got you covered.

There are so many different ways two people with vulvas can get it on and, honestly, creativity is HIGHLY encouraged. But we’ve thrown a few of our old favourites in this article to help get those creative juices (as well as other juices…) flowing.

These are great jumping off positions (none of which include any jumping, thank god), so you can mix, match and adjust to your own needs, desires and enjoyment. Here’s our 6 must try vulva-on-vulva sex positions…

1. From behind

There’s something so satisfying about doggy style. Whether using a toy/strap on for penetration or eating them out from behind, both can be AMAZING for whoever is lucky enough to be on the receiving end. Plus, that angle provides a great view of the booty. 😉

Extra spicy tip: Have the receiver use a vibrator on their nipples while the giver goes to work from behind.

2. The recline

Grab some pillows and create a comfy backrest for your partner to lie on. Have them kneel on the bed and lay backwards onto the pillows, so they get a great view of everything while you’re fingering or going down on them.

Extra spicy tip: As the receiver, you’ve got a front row seat to everything that’s going down. Communicate exactly how you want them to touch you, or even better… show them.

3. Grinding

Grinding gets a bad rap (probably because of all the scissoring jokes we’ve been subjected to), but it can be oh-so-satisfying. You can enjoy the old scissor classic or try this: both kneel while facing one another. Intertwine your thighs so your thigh is between their thighs and vice versa. Your vulvas should be lined up so they’re sitting on one another’s thighs. Then grind it out!

This position can also feel really intimate because you are face to face and can indulge in a great make out session at the same time.

Extra spicy tip: Add a little lube to whatever body part or surface you’re grinding on for extra slippery fun!

4. Face sitting

Straddle your partners face so they can lick your clitoris and/or finger you at the same time. In this position, you can also control the speed and motion of the stimulation by moving your hips in whatever way feels best.

Extra spicy tip: This can be a very dominating position, so if you’re into role play, add an extra layer by telling your partner exactly how you want them to pleasure you and take on a dominatrix-like role.

5. Add a toy

Adding a toy into sexual experiences can amp up the pleasure and help out when tongues and fingers get tired. There are tons of options when it comes to toys, so find what works for you. No worries ~ toys don’t have to be penetrative, if that’s not your thing. Nipple clamps, clitoral vibrators and partnered vibrators are all great options. But make sure you talk to your partners before adding a toy to the bedroom.

Extra spicy tip: Go toy shopping together. Picking out a strap on, vibrator or new lube together can be a super fun experience. It allows you to pick something you both know you’ll enjoy.

6. Forget penetration

Penetration isn’t necessary for sex. You define what sex means to you.

It can be fun to explore what other ways you can experience pleasure that don’t involve penetration at all.

Have your partner play with your nipples while you stimulate your clitoris, try grinding while making out, lay side by side and reach across to play with each other’s clits, 69 until your heart’s content. There are unlimited options in the sexual lexicon, explore them!

Extra spicy tip: Make an agreement to have sex without penetration one night. Explore each other’s erogenous zones without making orgasm the goal and see what new forms of pleasure you can find.

These are just a fraction of the many ways that vulva owners can enjoy sex together. Start with one and see where it takes you or make up something entirely new (be sure to tell us if you spark up something new & amazing). The only limit to amazing vulva-on-vulva sex is your own dirty little imagination. 

About Jennifer Doan

Jennifer Doan is a Confidence Coach, writer and orgasmic activist. She is on a life-long mission  to help feminists own their sexual confidence by amplifying pleasure and giving less fucks. She believes virginity and gender are social constructs, sexuality is as fluid as her iced coffee and that EVERYONE deserves to feel empowered by sex.


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